Are you being wooed by a man, who, for whatever reason, you don’t like or aren't interested in, or maybe you’re actually even married?

You are cared for by the man who for some reason is unpleasant or uninteresting to you. Or maybe you are married, aren't you?

Is it because you find the guy hitting on you uninteresting or unpleasant for some reason, or is it because you're married, plain and simple?

Is some guy that disgusts you or not interesting to you trying to hit on you, or maybe you're married?