перед "что" запятую не забывайте.

To me, family means that there is someone I can rely on. (?)

... means having someone to rely on. ¿

+++Tatiana))

If you ask me, family is (about) having someone to rely on. ¿

Yep!

Uly, would "count" also work here?

absolutely “to me, family is having someone to count on”

IF YOU ASK ME is good, but note that it’s used when you need to remind someone of something because they’ve obviously forgotten.

A: I always have the best pot in town and I know that because I get it from my brother. Half price. That’s what family’s for :)
B: If you ask me, family is supposed to talk out OUT of taking drugs!

Понятно, спасибо!🙏

You got it, kitten 🐱